If you’re anything like me, you surely want to leave an indelible mark on some of your sexual encounters. Penetration is fine, but a good blowjob is an act that leaves a good taste in the mouth of the receiver, ironic though it may seem. And it’s always a nice memory. A good fellatio says a lot about you.
Believe me, blowjobs are one of those things that are very sweet, but if you don’t do it right, it can turn into a nightmare for your partner. So how to give a blowjob?
Keep your mouth wet
Moisture is important. You should not assume that your mouth is going to be an inexhaustible source of moisture. Sometimes you have to help it a little. It doesn’t hurt to have a bottle of water nearby.
Remember, a lubricated foreskin is a foreskin that rolls and unrolls with grace. Well-lubricated blowjobs are way more pleasurable.
A tip: chewing gum will stimulate saliva production. So doing it beforehand will help you have the best blowjob.
Stimulate your partner anus!
Anal stimulation, sounds weird right? What’s the point, you may ask?
Unless your partner is one of those who repels any approach to his anal area, I strongly recommended to try to stimulate – after lubrication – his anus. You can gently use your finger to play with your partner’s hole.
If you are part of the most daring ones, launch yourself into a massage with the tongue! Then use your free hands to perform a masturbation. Nasty right! Your partner will remember it for the rest of his life.
Do not use your hands
Remember that the main part of a blowjob is the mouth. If it was a game and you did it from start to finish without using your hands, well, it would be perfect. It may take some practice and I recommend not to try it if you have no previous experience in giving head.
Again, you can use your free hands to tickle your partner’s anus or his nipple.
Gagging and tearing up
The unequivocal proof that you’re doing a blowjob right is a little tear. But not the emotional one. The other one…the nasty one. Unless the penis you are sucking has a size much smaller than the average, it is normal that the glans makes you stop. It is at that moment when that magical reflex occurs: the gagging.
After the gagging comes the tearing. That little tear will be the signal that will tell us if you are doing it right or not. Although it is recommended to be very careful and not to push too far. If you try to make sure that your nose hits your partner’s lower abdomen, the gagging may give way to what is not a tear, but the worst blowjob ever.
I’ve only given you a few tips to level up your blowjob experience. Feel free to use your hands on your partner’s body. But the most important of all the tips is to keep your mouth well-lubricated so that there is no unpleasant feeling for you and your partner.