Okay guys, I’ve been sitting on that one for quite some time and I’m soo excited to publish it now. I’ve been asking some of my best friends about their first orgasm and it’s been super interesting for me. It made me see how different (and yet similar, if that makes sense?) our first sexual experience are. Here are some of their answers. You’ll love them.
Bath Time With A Twist
“I was about 12, taking a warm bath as usual. I was lying down, relaxing, minding my own business when I noticed that my hands slowly moving up and down my thighs felt quiiite good. So I started caressing them. And I made my way down there without even thinking about it, just following what felt good. Some more caressing later, a wave of warmth went through my entire body and I felt it all shake. It was a crazy feeling that I kept exploring every week during my teenage years.”
Mona, 24.
His Tongue On My Clit
“I owe my first orgasm to the only guy I dated back in high school. We went to a shed that he’d furnished with old couches and chairs at his grand-parents’ house. He told them he was going to help me with biology (which I now find hilarious). We had made out a few times before but had never done anything else. We started touching each other’s bodies that afternoon. He went down on me right away, I had no sexual experience at the time. It felt absolutely amazing, I couldn’t believe it! I felt like screaming but couldn’t because I didn’t want us to get caught.”
Julie, 27.
Late Comer
“I can’t believe this happened but… I had two boyfriends and never had an orgasm with them. Like it was nice and all, it felt good, but it never really did it for me. I thought that’s what sex was like. Overrated. Until I met this girl. Tessa. Aah Tessa… Tessa was not only the first person to make me come but she did it three times in one night, on our second date. I had to wait until I was 26 years old for that first orgasm but damn, it was worth it.”
Jamila, 30.
Solo first orgasm
“I asked my older cousin to go buy me a vibrator because I had heard about them on a TV show and I was very determined to learn how my body works and would react. I had read a lot about body positivity and also about bad first sexual experience, so I wanted to make sure mine was different. I’m glad I did. My cousin bought me one of those womanizer vibrators, which I tried later that day. I had my first orgasms (yes, plural), and the day ended with my knees shaking. I kept experiencing with it and with another sex toy I bought shortly after. It helped me understand what pleasure is and what sex is supposed to feel like before trying it with an actual person.”
Stacy. 24
I picked these 4 stories because they either made me giggle, feel horny or feel inspired. I might share more stories like this one later. In the meantime, I’d love to hear about your own first orgasms, I now realize they are all so unique! What about you guys? Tell me about the first time you touched yourself!